You might even use special pet names inside of the bedroom, even if you’re not into BDSM. It’s like turning down the lights or putting on lingerie, both of which can help you get ready for sex. This helps to reinforce the roles that you play and to get into the right headspace.
For example, some people use them during scenes. They put you in the right headspace – The purpose of a dom name or sub name varies between the people who adopt them. Whether you’re interested in keeping BDSM inside the bedroom or want to explore it as a lifestyle, you might find yourself considering what your dominant name might be or helping choose a submissive name for your partner. In fact, some people engage in 24/7 power exchange relationships where they never leave those roles. If you’ve already read our guide to BDSM, you know some people take on dominant and submissive roles or the similar roles of top and bottom. If you are interested in having your guy completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out her story & (explicit!) blow job tutorial video here. Quick Warning: While this woman's story & subsequent BJ tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.